More than a dream- more than just finding the right mate, marriage is a reality which engulfs and encompasses every small phase of everyday living. In maturity comes a deeper understanding that marriage is a combination of romantic elements and questions and problems. Finding the answers to many of the universal queries is the job of Dr. David Fulcomer, marriage counselor at Iowa Stale. Confronted with several questions from engaged women, Dr. Fulcomer emphasized that his answers and comments are somewhat generalized since each couple presents a different situation.